Selalu tu, kalau i met divorced people, ramai jua ah.. i always ask "why"? Bermacam macam answer you hear lah. Like me, kalau women lain, kalau men lain. So when you get to hear all that kan, you start to analyze and see human behaviour. Very intresting jua. Men from are from mars and women are from venus. So in the book. Bila you read it, maybe just give you basic nya toh. In reality, when you go through life, you, yourself have got to understand it clearly. I don't know if you paham or not. I met a men who been divorced for what..4 years dah. And i asked "why" .. you know why? Out of curiosity. Age about 42... and he told me it was his fault. How many man would mengakun that??? Not a lot jawapan nya toh. And that too he said it was his ego. Now he is single and available. Got four children, staying with his wife. She got the house, the car and the children. Okay tu ah.
Then he told me she is going to get married. Because his daughter told him so... So i asked him again.. What does he think about that? Then he said to me, she have to leave the house???? Leave??? what do you mean? Well, if she is getting married to another man, then that man should provide the house for her, and he will move in with the children. That i don't get. Why would you want to take the house??? Is it because you paid for it? And only for your children you provide the house??? That i don't get. Really...
Em.. first i agree men ani mengakun. Second i don't agree for taking the house if wife kawin. I mean, the wife beranak kan empat orang zuriat for him, should not bekira. I guess ego still there. It doen't matter, if wife nya kawin, she have to live jua kan. But ya lah.. that i don't get it... still.... Apa hak lelaki and apa hak isteri. And what if isterinya tidak bekerja??? that ... how, you mean the hubby kan biarkan 'x' bini nya lari kesana lari ke sini untuk mencari tempat tinggal yang selamat?? Dulu bukan main, masa bercinta.. wah bagai nak rak. Bila sudah habis becinta, kena buang catu saja. Why????
Masa beguna, awal atu, wah.. inda mau bini bekerja, sebab nak kan sorang saja yang punya, and kalau boleh orang lain inda boleh liat bininya. Apa lagi, bini pun perasaan lah.. oiii.. kena sayangi. Tapi, bila inda beguna, inda di pikirkan lagi after that. Biar tia cari makan sendiri. Kalau sudah tua...company mana kan megambil bekeraja ah? Jadi tukang sapu lah, tukang masak lah, jadi pembersih lah... atu pun kalau sanggup. Ia tah.. bukan kerja hina, tapi apa tah toh.. biasa laki mendulur, tapi inda lagi ada. Untuk di sesali, apa guna? Dah terlambat.. Apa toh??? Emosi lah me sikit. But ya lah. Baru satu yang me share here. Alum lagi yang lain.
Ada laki yang inda bekeraja, mengharapkan bini tah ganya, atu luan jua tu.... but again, terpulang lah pada individu... Alahai!!!!