Saturday, June 30, 2007
Friday, June 29, 2007
- love your child withouth strings
- talk to your child openly and honestly
- value the time you spend together
- keep your child fit and well
- nurture your child's skills and abilities
- set a good example
p/s. Went to KK and stop at the TIMES Bookstore and found this book. I went there just to get a book actually for my brother and one for me. Then of course every single books in store are all very interesting berabiz, and i wish one day i have my own library of books to read.
All this while i been reading books on Motivation (i enjoyed reading this kind of book to keep myself confident and boost up my self-esteem and not to easily break down if anything happen and make me stronger as a person). I am a single parent for quite a while now, and i wanted to be a great mum too. I have a son age 9, and this is the time for me to know him as a young adult. So i need to know more and get close to him as i am also a working mother. I found the BOOK. I LOVE IT!!!
The other day, the Oprah's show were on parenting. And interestingly, the guess speaker were talking about a topic on being a single parent, how to deal with your children etc..... And yes, i did say this to myself that i am a father and a mother to my son.
And this lady were saying " you can't be a father if you are mother, you will not be a father even if you want to be. You are a mother, and what you need to do is to be a Great Mother to your child". I heard from friends too, they always say that they are a father and mother to their child being single and all, and its hard. And yes, when you think about it, why would you want to be both when you know you're only a mother or a father. A mother is always a mother and a father is always a father. We are not the same.... True..true... (me realizing... baru nampak...) Well that hit me and woke me up. Sometimes you just tried your best to be both just for you children, but think again, we are what we are, one human being, one soul, so we do what best and show the best for our children. So if you - a single mother, Be A Great Mum you can be, and if you - a single father, Be A Great Dad you can be.
Amazing that i got this book on how to be a great Mum that Tuesday. And Wednesday night, i watched Oprah's show on chanel 10, and i just felt it and ask why?, there got to be a reason why?, why this show at this time for me? why not other time? meaning that things like this, is a sign for me. A sign that i need to do something about what i want for my child and myself. I want to be closer and spend more time with my one and only child who really need my attention at this stage of growing up. Who says its easy.....
I woke up another day, and tell myself that i want to know on how to be a Great Mum. I am so lucky to still be able to know what i want. Each day is meaningful to me. We must see life as an opportunity, don't look at our past, try to look for years to come. What do you want in your life?
The book, "How to be a great MUM", author by Tracy Godridge.
Tracy Godridge is a journalist and author specialising in birth and parenting. She has worked for many years as an editor and consultant editor on top-selling national parenting magazines and websites. She is also the author of a number of childcare books. She has three children, currently aged nine, twelve and fourteen.
Gosh! I miss my baby Luqman. I called last night, so many stories he said. I miss him. He said he miss me too, and he told me he knows that i miss him.....
Thursday, June 28, 2007
Another day…. TUESDAY NOON OFF TO KK. WEDNESDAY BACK FROM KK.THURSDAY WORK AT 6AM TO 10AM HELLO BRUNEI DARUSSALAM
After all the chops
Now? I am at Mamih beribi. One of the favourite place to go and eat. Well, for me lah. And I am alone. Yes ALONE. Why? Well I want to be alone and have a quiet dinner and write my blog, although Mamih is not a quiet place, but the waitress and waiter are kind and sweetest to give me a good spot for me. How wonderful is that. I like the ROTI KOSONG (one of the best), NASI GORENG CORNBEEF (extra beef), and of course my KASTURI ICE. Apart from water, I love KASTURI ICE. And the environment Wah… boleh write blog and cuci mata. Clean olehnya.. I will continue again tmro for more pictures and other things.
Monday, June 25, 2007
That be our theme for today, SEE NO EVIL.HEAR NO EVIL.SAY NO EVIL. A very Good start to remind ourselves. I wanted to share with Iril tadi about one person Dj who said something bad about me. All this while i would never thought of that as fellow Djs are working together. But rupanya ada jua and this person really is bad. But then again, i change my mind of not wanting to tell Iril about it. There's no good on talking about someone who is so negative in life, who sees things negatively especially early in the moning. That just spoils it. So i put myself together and think of the best of D best and that goes to the rest of fellows Djs. Now.. now you know "if they bring story to you about people, for sure they will bring story about you to people". Oh well......
Oh yesterday my schedule full lah. Work at 12am to 3am. Slept for what? Couple hours only. (I read in the article that if you sleep say about 5 to 6 hours you will live longer than the one who slept for more than 8 hours. How true is that. I read another atricle too, a different magazine, said that if you are an elderly person, sleep less. No wonder... My grandma sleep less, because i always sees her still busy doing something before sleep and she's always doing something even after i woke up from sleep. ha.a.a. Am i going to do that? Not sure... lets see ah...)
Zaty and Alif went "automation"... he..he... that's what i said to them yesterday everytime they show up at Studio A, Iril & Ashraff incharge of gallery, Zack MC, Ryan and Addy hanging around helping us out too. All were great. Congrats guys for making it a great shows yesterday. Got some pictures to share. Very interesting.
KHAMDI(green) & AZEEM
Hey Hatta... wen you sing Juwitaku, i took a picture of you and i felt like you are singing to me... ha.a.a... Perasaan eh... pst.. Iril jua cakap like that when i told him...?#
I LOVE THIS SONG BY NATASHA BEDDINGFIELD "SOULMATE"... how are we to know if there's a soulmate for everyone.... oh I LOVE THE SONG BY HATTA "JUWITAKU"...for me kali tu ah......
here are some pictures of yesterday too. People who won prizes for quizes. :)) Winners were:-
1.Siti Nurul Suzalina - Kilanas
2.Moiz - Tutong
3.Rynnol - Tutong
4.Ahmad Adibb - Lambak Kanan
5.Nururl Ilyaa Anna Jasmina - Bebatik