Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Cheating Wife

Cheating Wife
By
Heidi MullerRelationship Correspondent - Every other Sunday


You're in a relationship with a wonderful girl, which makes it even harder to fathom that she may be cheating on you. A cheating wife or girlfriend is a concern that haunts many a man in relationships, and the thought of your lady putting her paws on another man makes your skin crawl.So how can you spot a cheating wife or girlfriend, and what do you do about it?


signs of a cheating wife. Although there are signs that can indicate that your girlfriend is two-timing you, the thing to keep in mind is that you're looking for a change in her behavior patterns. The key to spotting a cheating wife or girlfriend is change , so if she's always been a guy's girl and has a lot of male friends, don't get all paranoid when you hear that she was seen with her friend Max at the movies, for example.

The following are 5 signs that she may be letting someone else taste her pudding:

1- She's no longer as needy. If she was never able to go shopping, exercise, or cross the street alone, and she suddenly doesn't need your company, it may mean that someone else is filling your shoes. It's possible that she just needs time to herself, but if she's unusually independent when she used to be overly needy, it may signal that she's just no longer as needy... of you.

2- She no longer gets angry. She used to get angry if you didn't want to meet her for lunch or come out with her and her friends, but now everything you do is all right by her. Once upon a time, your every move had to be premeditated, but now all the small things you used to mess up aren't enraging her. This could be a good thing, but you wonder why she no longer cares.

3- She's being secretive. She's no longer sharing her daily events with you, and in order to find out what she's doing, you'd have to break open her diary because she's not volunteering any information regarding the goings-on of her life. Of course, you could always ask...

4- She places the focus on you. When you do ask her questions, she turns the tables on you. The former chatterbox's batteries have run out and when you ask her how her night was, mum's the only word. It's now all about you, you, you, rather than "I did this" and "I went here last night."

5- She showers you with pleasure. Now that it's all about you, your girlfriend is always complimenting you, asking you to go out, giving you "I love you" cards for no reason whatsoever, and even offering to wash your car and watch the boxing match with you. While these gestures are more than sweet, it's this kind of overcompensating behavior that can make one suspicious. If she's bombarding you with niceties, it might be nice to know what's really going on.

Ps. something i would like to share about woman and man. If husbands out there cheat on their wives, therefore there also wives who cheat on their husbands. Men is always a hunter, but should i accept being cheated? I probably cannot accept wife cheat on husband, why? Number 3.She's being secretive. - There must be a reason why? Not necessarily she cheat on her husband. Maybe her husband didn't care about her. Or maybe she doesn't trust her husband anymore, maybe just maybe the husband is the "kiss & tell" type. If been together for a long long time, i am sure the wife knows the husband better. There got to be many many reasons for that. How many man and women you know cheats on their wives and husbands here? If you said none, then you are lying to yourself. I've seen a lot and well, there's always a questions i ask myself. Why? Is he better than him? Is she better than her? ....

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

This post is very ironic indeed. What do you call a woman who had an affair with a married man?? His disgusted ex-wife has since divorced this unfaithful man! Hit a nerve yet????
That's why this entry is so hyprocritical!!! Lady, you are in denial....GET HELP!!!!!!

A man/woman who is in a relationship and yet has an affair with other people is IMMORAL. A single man or woman who wrecks another people's relationship is also IMMORAL. Shame on these people.

Anonymous said...

To anonymous... like duhhh!!! who are u to be judgemental.. are u that disgusted ex-wife that has been divorced...

Please la... aku bukan apa... if u don't like zura.. u don't have to be judgemental... Atu keraja tuhan kan menghukum bah... who the #$@! do u think u are...

She has all the help, frens and family members to help her... She has a son, she has family and colleagues to help her out... Why dont you be sensible and be of help instead of being a nuisance...

This blog is set up for her to share whatever decent part of her life she wants... sapa jua kan buka pekung di dada...

I'm fed up wit ppl like you... WHAT DO U EXPECT TO ACHIEVE?

If ur da*ning her with ur comments, does that make you a better person... like DOOHHH!!!!

Ketara bah sakit ati mu atu.. Lagi pun nda perlu u kan influence other readers to hate zura with ur version of the story on zura's life. Pintar2 belaka bloggers ani... The readers are not stupid and ignorant... Nda payah jadi batu api..

Baik plg ko ikut segmen 'Kauselling' di PelangiFM tu..!!

aFrenOfZura - who dislikes hypocritical anonymous critiques...

Richie aka Zura's Kipas said...

WOW! I can that 1st anonymous person say such bad thing about Zura. If u r man or woman enough, put ur name on this comment..why anonymous..?! That's what people say " TALK ONLY BUT NO ACTION" lah. paloi kali orang ani. Nada kerja lain. Kan merosakkan image orang! Ah well, this person must have a sad sad life to judge people.

osmar said...

i have the experience in dealing with cheating wives. My observation was dat they has been neglected by the hubby in all sorts, ie sex life, concerns, interest and others.They get bored with all rountine things and need some " new adventoruous experinces"...so what else interest them and i had been faithfully taking dat responsbility except her sex desire...as long she kept occupied...Of late when her husband realised on this affair, his back now and im left as dumb...but ive no regret...dont blame dat wife...