'I am glad you're mine.' - Yes that's how i felt about love.
Whenever i said i am lonely, i felt cold, i felt we are not
connected, i felt you're far, i felt no connection at all mean i
need to be TOUCH.
Yes i have to admit, that is a confession indeed from me. I love
to be TOUCH. It is impossible for me if there's no TOUCH. It is
impossible for me to be in a good emotional feeling when
there's no TOUCH.
I thought i am gila to have that feeling. Rupanya when i read
this article jua CLOSENESS THROUGH TOUCHING. Rupanya ada
jua.. i terus baca lah. I really thought i ani gila. Seriously.
Because you know why? One half think touching is nothing. But
not only my one half lah, the article pun ada cerita that this
couple yang husbandnya work as an accountant pun inda
TOUCH wife nya until only when he want to sex her up.. Haha!!
then the wife have no feelings at at because she felt no love.
MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE, IT IS THE MAGIC OF THE
PHYSICAL, NON-SEXUAL TOUCH IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT BINDS
AND KEEPS THE FIRE IN A MARRIAGE BURNING.. (Interesting
topic to share lah. Mana lah tau you pun got this problem
about inda kena TOUCH oleh your hubby or your wife.. )
In marriage or relationship, many couples will come to find in
time that because of the absense of 'little things' (non-sexual,
loving TOUCHES), the big things (sexual intercourse) become
MONOTONOUS and more of a DUTY than PLEASURE.
Sex is a pleasure to me not a duty lah. Boring if it become a
duty. It should be like the first time hit and bang thing,
unbelievable moment, with all those style and actions, need to
be infront of the mirror .. why not? Or perhaps bending over in
the toilet.. or sitting on top, or whatever .. haha, i let you
imagine your first moment of that ever SUPER FEELING HEAT ..
Bah i continue lagi.. sambongan dari Duty than Pleasure. On a
deeper level, SENSORY DEPRIVATION LEADS TO DEPRESSION,
EMOTIONAL PAIN AND THE FEELING OF BEING COMPRIMISED IN
Touch is the SINGLE MOST DISTINCTIVE WAY to COMMUNICATE
ONE'S FEELING. A simple squeeze of your partner's hand could
say 'i'm glad you're mine'. Whereas genly brushing the hair
away from his or her fae could interpreded as 'i just love gazing
at you'. deliberate, loveing touches can reach places in no better
way to say 'i truly love you'. 'i cherish you. You complete me' or
even 'i'm sorry' through touch.
Other than strengthening a marriage, non sexual, physical
communication when executed with sincerity builds trust,
extends comfort and increases INTIMACY.
A SINGLE LOVING TOUCH FROM A LOVED ONE STIMULATES THE BRAIN TO
SECRETE A CHEMICAL called Oxytocin, which CALMS THE MIND
and brings about warm fuzzy, BONDING DESIRE. Oxytocin also
known as the 'CUDDLE HORMONE'! haha.. sweet.
Here some tips.
Humans thrive on TOUCH. That include ME.. i am HUMAN TOO. i
WANT TO BE TOUCH!!!!!!!! MORE!!! MORE!!! ... LACK OF PHYSICAL
CONTACT may lead to EMOTIONAL DISTURBANCES, REDUCED
SEXUAL INTERST and EVEN WEAKEND IMMUNE SYSTEM.
Hold hands when you wal together.
Sit close to one another both publicly and privately.
Kiss and take time to enjoy the act of kisssing just for the fun
Allow your mate to rest his headon your lap while you gently
stroke his hair or massage his scalp. Don't get offended if he happens to doze off! heheh..
cuddle and give gentle strokes to one another while watching
Hug regularly and whenever possible, make it last longer.
BATH OR SHOWER TOGETHER -
Psst... i read this from HER WORLD. For MARRIED COUPLE ONLY. Tq.